Languages of Love
Write down your favorite love language from the following options: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Giving and Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. Also, note what you think your partner's favorite love language is. Share with each other which language touches your heart the most. For an additional challenge, find a way to express your love to your partner in their favorite language while exploring the city.
Here is a detailed summary of the Five Love Languages. In principle, we are all able to express ourselves in all of these languages, but some of them may reach our hearts more directly than others. Having a preferred language often means that we not only enjoy receiving expressions of love in that language but that we also love to use it to express ourselves.
• Words of Affirmation: This love language involves expressing love and affection through verbal affirmations, compliments, and appreciation. People who value this language of love thrive on kind and encouraging words, and they feel most loved when they receive heartfelt feedback.
• Acts of Service: This language is expressing love and affection through actions that show care and consideration. People who prefer this language feel the love when their partner helps them with tasks, runs errands for them, or takes care of things that need to be done.
• Giving and Receiving Gifts: Thoughtful gifts and gestures are a beautiful way to express love. People who prioritize gift-giving as a love language feel a strong connection when they receive a gift, and they experience a lot of joy in giving gifts to others.
• Quality Time: This love language involves spending time together and giving each other undivided attention. People who value this language feel most connected when their partner sets aside time to focus on them and engage in activities that they both enjoy.
• Physical Touch: One language of love is showing affection through physical closeness, such as hugging, kissing, holding hands and having sex. People who prefer this language really need cuddles or hands-on intimacy to feel connected.
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